Thursday, August 6, 2009

2 Months Old

A quick update.
Arya is now 2 months old. She just had her wellness check-up this week. She has grown 2 inched, 23 inches and gained 2 lbs, 12.1 lbs. She is mostly alert wanting her mommy, so when it is necessary, like taking a shower, I will turn on an educations kids channel and she will she focused to good periods of time. She has started talking baby talk and smiling a lot. It is so fun watching and listening to her. She is active with her arms and legs, I wonder if she will skip the crawling and hit the floor running. Arya started sleeping throughout the night last week, which has been a blessing for me. I’m still tired but it has been a lot easier with more sleep. While at her wellness visit, she received her first set of vaccines. Poor Arya did not like that very well and for the rest of the day her legs felt tender from the injection site. However, the very next day it was as if none of it happened, so that is good. I’m having so much fun with her it is going to be very hard returning back to work. I have been fortunate enough to have 3 months off leaving me with about 3 weeks left till I return. I’m just having a hard time dealing with the fact that someone else gets to be with my daughter watching her smile and talk and other things as she gets older.
The house is still a working progress. Arya’s room is completing finished and so cute. Our bedroom is almost finished. Soon we will be moving upstairs, there are just a few more things that need to be done. David has been working so hard with both his job and at home trying to make sure the house is ready before the cold weather hits. I think we are just about there. We can do the finishing work, like the molding and finishing carpeting later. All in all we are doing great!!!!

Tyler and Haley have adjusted well with the baby. They are pretty rowdy with playing so they are outside a lot of the time when it is nice out. They like to explore the grounds, hunt; yes I said hunt, and sunbath. They probably sunbath most of the time. It is fun to watch their expressions when Arya is crying. They look like they are wondering what is wrong and are close by watching her. Still they keep their distance for they don’t know their own strength.
When I return back to work it will be easier to keep you all update on everything.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Arya is 1 Month Old

Holy cow, I cannot believe that it has been a month since the birth of Arya. Arya just had her third wellness visit this past week. She now weighs 10 pounds and 4oz, measuring 21 ½ inches. She will receive her 2-month vaccination shots next visit. I’m hoping that it isn’t too dreadful for her. While we were at the doctor’s office she decided as I was feeding her that she was going to go poopy. And of course the diaper leaked and I had poop all over my leg. I think she was smiling during that time frame. She is definitely David’s daughter.
Arya is doing great. She is a good baby. She is getting into a schedule, which has been helpful towards me. She generally goes to bed by 9:30pm and will sleep until 3-4am for a feeding and diaper change. I try to go to bed soon after she does so I feel rested. So far, that has been working. She hardly ever cries. She will generally fuss when she needs to be changed or is hungry. She finally lost her belly button cord about two weeks ago, and we think that Maggie, my mom’s dog, must of ate it. I was disappointed about that. I would have like to have saved it for her baby book. Arya loves bath time. She loves the warm water and kicking her legs. We gave her bath this evening in her new whale tub and she slept throughout the bath. I couldn’t believe it. The water must have been that relaxing. Arya is becoming more alert everyday, enhancing her attention span, at times looking in the direction that her name is called, looking at mom and dad when we are talking, and smiling. I love when she smiles. You can’t help but be happy. Her facial expressions are so funny. Arya is just a character and David and I are enjoying every minute. I feel so blessed that she is apart of our lives. I’m looking forward to when she starts cooing and baby talking.

Monday, June 15, 2009

Welcome Arya Marie Mathis

On Sunday June 7th at 11am, David and I were on our way to the store. Before leaving the house, I was tying my shoes when my water broke. It felt like I had just peed my pants. I called my mom first to explain what had happened, then called the hospital to let them know I was on my way. David and I arrived at the hospital at 12:30pm and they admitted me and got me ready for what was going to be a long evening. The doctor on call checked me and I was 4cm dilated and 100% effaced. I stayed that way for about 4 hours and then received some medication to ease the anxiety and the sharpness of the contractions. I walked around a little and visited my family in the waiting room to help move along the dilation.
Around 6pm I had dilated to 7cm. By 9pm, I was feeling really uncomfortable and received a pain reliever in my spine. I can’t recall the name, but it was not an epidural. It was a one-time shot. That helped considerably. I was able to rest for about an hour still able to recognize the contractions, just not the intensity. At 10:30pm, it was time to push. Pushing helped relieve the contractions and I was thinking to myself, this should take no time. After an hour and a half of pushing the contractions became harder. Two and a half hours had passed and Arya had stopped progressing down the canal. She was fine, however I could not do anymore. The doctor decided that I was going to have to have a C-section. At 2:30am I went to the OR for surgery. David was really nervous about the surgery, however throughout the entire evening, he was very supportive and completely there for me.
Arya was born on June 8th at 3:07am weighing 8 lbs and 8oz, 21 inches long. The doctor said that Arya had been lodged and a C-section was necessary. Arya scored well on her Apgar score and was healthy under no distress from the delivery. David returned to the maternity ward with Arya while I went into recovery. Thankfully I wasn’t there long. When I came up to the maternity ward she had been cleaned up waiting for me. To see her, I was overwhelmed with so many emotions. She is so beautiful; I still cannot believe that David and I had made this perfect person.
I was discharged from the hospital on Thursday morning. My mom and sister in-law came that evening for a couple of days to help out around the house due to my surgery. Tavia, my sister in-law helped David work with the addition upstairs and cleaning. Arya’s room is almost complete. The molding is up, room is painted and the doors are in. We are waiting for carpeting at this point. Mom helped with preparing and cooking of the meals, cleaning and organization. So things continue to move forward and everyday the house is more comfortable and getting closer to moving things upstairs. Can’t wait for that day.
Arya had her first doctor’s appointment this morning, June 15, 2009. She continues to be healthy weighing 8 lbs and 5 oz. She looks and is doing great. She has a prescription to take vitamin drops to go along with the breast-feeding. She has another appointment next week.
David has been so great this past week. He really wants to be involved with everything; cooking dinner, feeding, diaper changing, bathing, play time, and even getting up with me in the middle of the night. I have been pumping so he can feed her in the evening prior to putting her to bed. Arya has been a joy watching her different facial expressions, having snuggle and play time. She is a perfect addition to our family and we love her very much.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

39 Weeks Along

I think I’ve been having contractions; however, it has not been time to go into the hospital yet. I had my weekly check-up yesterday, 6/3/09, and was informed that I was 3cm dilated and 75% effaced. I asked the doctor when I should stop working and he replied that I should consider stopping now. I’m far along and the process has started, so I should rest. I am going to finish off the week and start my maternity leave on Monday. I am looking forward to having the summer off from my working job.
My doctor also wanted to give me the option of moving forward with labor. He said that the baby is full term and if I wanted, we could schedule a day to have my water broken. I started to feel anxious and scared. I realize that she is going to be here any day now; however, I really don’t want to force her here and create an increase of discomfort for myself. I really want to try to embrace her coming naturally on her own. Her due date is not until the 10th of June, so I’m going to wait. If she is not here on the 10th, then I will consider proceeding with getting my water broken.
I’m really nervous and excited. I can’t believe I’m going to be a mom. It is somewhat emotionally overwhelming. I knew this all along, however sometime in the few days this is truly a reality. David is excited. He has been working his butt off trying to finish the baby room. He is being so particular; he just wants it to look perfect. It is really sweet of him. I have my call list ready to inform everyone the news. Pray for me and wish that I have a good experience with labor.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

38 Weeks Along

Two more weeks left…maybe. I had my check-up with the doctor yesterday and again, I’m doing great with blood pressure and weight gain. The baby’s heart rate is within normal range; 140’s. He did check to see if I had dilated further. I’m still 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced. He said that he can feel her head and that my cervix continues to soften. I was really hoping for further progress, like maybe being taken out of work due to further dilation. I really don’t want to start using my leave until it is necessary. Therefore, I will just have to wait. Soon enough.

David and I will be able to start painting the baby’s room this weekend. I’m looking forward to that. David has the master bedroom almost finished with the dry wall, so he will be taping and mudding this weekend. His dad is suppose to visit to help him finish the electrical work so we can continue with the living room. Slowly but surely things are progressing. We have the car seat ready for her arrival. I can’t believe how heavy that sucker is. David put the stroller together last night and I love it. My parents will be up to visit this weekend to bring the pack-n-play and dresser that goes with the crib. All these cool toys for me. I can’t wait to start putting things into place.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

37 Weeks Along

I had an ultrasound done yesterday, 5/19/09, to check the growth of the baby. It was so cool seeing her. David and I are definitely having a girl. She has some hair already. She approximately weighs 7 pounds and 10 oz give or take a pound. The cool part was watching her heart beating, all four chambers working and pumping away. I can’t believe I have this little person inside of me and that she will be with us very soon. She is still in position squished down with her hands in front of her face. It almost looked like she was sucking her thumb.
I had my check-up with the doctor today, 5/20/09. I was in and out in no time. Again, I’m doing great with blood pressure and weight gain. The baby’s heart rate is within normal range; 130’s. He did check to see if I had dilated further. I’m still 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced. He said that he can feel her head and that my cervix is loosening. So we shall see next week, if I have progressed any further.
Last night as I was driving home from work, I noticed a new feeling for about an hour off and on. It felt like my stomach had tightened for periods of time. She continued to be active moving around throughout this time frame. Some of the girls at work said I could have been feeling Braxton Hicks. I didn’t feel any pain; it was just a very different feeling.
Things are still progressing with the house. David has the baby’s room dry wall up and the taping and putty will be done hopefully this evening, just the first coat. I have her paint already to go. My brother and his wife will be coming up next week to help paint…so very grateful for that.

Friday, May 15, 2009

9 Month Check Up

I had my 9-month check up this past Wednesday and it went great!!! The baby’s heart rate continues to be good around 150, my blood pressure is normal, my weight is in check, and everything I am experiencing is normal, ex: the swelling and tenderness of the feet. This visit took a little bit longer due to having an examine done. I have found out that I am already 2cm dilated and 50 % effaced. SO EXCITED!!!! I realize I could be this way for a couple of weeks, but there is a chance she could come early. I have an ultrasound scheduled for next Tuesday to figure the size of her. Love ultrasounds. The last one I had was New Years Eve, so it will be amazing to see her again before delivery. When I told David that the baby has started moving her way down, it took him a minute to realize that we really don’t have that much time left. He has been spending the evenings getting the upstairs ready. Mom and Dad are visiting on Sunday to help with the house and are going to bring everything from the shower with them in hopes that next week I can start putting some of her things away.
I have been resting more this past week and a half. I will usually lay down for about an hour prior to sweeping the floor and making dinner. That helps a lot. Working a full day is very tiring these day, especially working with psychiatric patients. I’m losing patience with them. I’ll be glad to be out of work for 11 ½ weeks. I know it won’t be much of a break; however, it is a break from work. I am hoping to put the updated pictures on the web this weekend.